It's All Done: Interlude

[vianegativa]

I really didn't mean for my last entry to come off as a plea for support or a request for the damnation of the guy I had a problem with; neither is necessary. The person I wrote of is definitely a good fellow, but our interaction just sucked.

I'm just posting these things because I'm very, very tired of other people laying blame at my feet. People have been trying to burden me with some unbelievable things, and while I'm not taking it, it does have a withering effect on me.

When did so many people decide to abandon reason & accountability?

Comments

[jss]

Some time in the early 1980s, definitely during the first Reagan administration.

[sftekbear.livejournal.com]

It's the American way.

By the way, I have a splitting headache and I missed work today. I blame you.

[vianegativa.livejournal.com]

Sorry. I shifted the Earth's magnetic field. I needed better TV reception. Sorry.

[davomatic.livejournal.com]

I believe it started with cavemen and who *exactly* invented fire.

[retrocool.livejournal.com]

I say the wheel......

[davomatic.livejournal.com]

*clubs you over the head and drags you back my cave*

[vianegativa.livejournal.com]

That I would like to see.

[retrocool.livejournal.com]

Oh you would like to see that...hmmm ok ...

[retrocool.livejournal.com]

I say if anything brush it off, some people like to create more drama then needed. Nonetheless, its not sweat off your back really. He will come around when he wants to come around! You made your point too so nuff said

[vianegativa.livejournal.com]

Thank you. I just get so crazy sometimes, reviewing all possible alternatives. I drive myself to distractions...

"Was it me...?"

[retrocool.livejournal.com]

(thumbs up)

Was it you what?

[aadroma.livejournal.com]

When did so many people decide to abandon reason & accountability?

Have you seen society in general in the last ten to fifteen years? ^^;;;;

[invisiblebear.livejournal.com]

You got to see some true colors come out before being fully invested, which is sad but still of some benefit. Too bad it didn't come about later, when it's a cost you absorb in knowing a friend instead of a one-and-done, first-and-last-offense deal from someone with paper-thin skin.

[vianegativa.livejournal.com]

I'm just so frustrated. I mean GRAH. I KNOW I'm a bad correspondent at times (you know this first hand), but its not like I blew him off after weeks of not calling.

I just feel sometimes that no matter what I do, no matter how hard I try or how well I comport myself that I'm going to be the one with the blame.

[invisiblebear.livejournal.com]

Is it the treatment that's bothering you, or the perceived loss of a quality connection with someone? Because if that "quality" is there, it should be smart enough to come back through an open door. And if it's just the way you were treated, you're just going to have to let this pass out of your system, because if it stays, you're just going to remain all GRAH-like.

You can't control the reaction or the blame; instead, focus more on taking it in stride. Let it go, and call it just a serious of unfortunate circumstances, Lemony.

[cubziz.livejournal.com]

Sadly, I feel that the creation of things like Bear411 have created this "It's all about me" sort of mentality. :(

I get folks all the time who sit and chat with me for an hour, then get offended because I didn't tell them about Hunter. It's on the freaking profile people! Argh. I'm sorry you couldn't be bothered to READ, not just look at the pictures.

*HUG*

[booboobob.livejournal.com]

I don't know about accountability, but reason seems to fly out the window when emotions hold the trump card.

Trust me.